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How To Get Over Someone Special – A Gals Guide

Are you wondering how to get over someone who meant the world to you? Was the break up a surprise and now you are left adrift? Here’s some advice on how to get over someone special.

First of all, determine whether the relationship is truly over. If you still harbour getting back together, you will not be able to get over the person. You can hang on to a guy for days, months, or even years when there is no hope. Until you decide it’s over, it’s not ñ even if the love is not reciprocated. You are not able to move on until you let go.

Once you have decided it really is over, take concrete steps to end the relationship. For one thing, do a property exchange. Pack up all of the things he has at your house and ship them to him. Get rid of everything including his toothbrush. Ask for anything of yours back that he has. Clearing yourself of each other’s things will launch you into your new single status.

If you have financial entanglements, get them straightened up right away. This may be as simple as paying him back the $20 he lent you last week at the mall or it can be as complicated as refinancing a house. Whatever you have to do, do it as soon as possible so that your finances are no longer intermeshed.

You have to decide what to do about people and places you have in common too. It is not uncommon for a couple to decide “who gets the church” after a break up. Sometimes it is not healthy to continue to run into a person with whom you no longer have a romantic relationship.

Similarly, you may have to “divorce” some of his friends. While they didn’t do anything to you, they have always been closer to him than you. While you can still be polite and friendly when you occasionally run into them, they may be people that you don’t want to contact on a regular basis any longer.

Next, you need to start to have a new life. If you were close to the person you have broken up with, you probably spent a lot of time with him. This is time that you will have to fill with new people and activities.

Perhaps you let relationships with friends and family die when you started getting involved with your ex. This is a good time to renew these relationships.

It is also a good time to work on making new relationships. You probably spent time doing things your ex wanted to do but that didn’t thrill you. Take advantage of this time to launch your own hobbies and interests. You could take a writing class at the local university, take a dance class at an aerobics studio, start a scrapbooking circle with a group from church, or get season tickets to the opera. As you get involved with these things that interest you, you will meet new people.

It is very likely that your next boyfriend will grow out of the new circle of people you meet through your new activities. And, hooking up again is the very best way to get over someone special!

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